Interview Script·45 min·11 questions

Discovering why engaged sales prospects disappear after receiving detailed proposals

You're seeing a pattern that doesn't make sense: sales directors who were actively engaged through multiple calls suddenly go silent after you send the proposal they requested. They seemed genuinely interested, asked thoughtful questions, and even mentioned specific implementation timelines, but now they won't return calls or give you straight answers about what changed.

Why standard questions fail here

Direct questions about why they didn't move forward typically get diplomatic non-answers about budget or timing that don't match their earlier enthusiasm. This script works backward from the specific moment they received your proposal, reconstructing their actual decision-making process and the real concerns that emerged when they saw everything laid out in black and white.

Sample Questions

Grounded in The Mom Test and Jobs-to-be-Done.

Q1 Can you walk me through what was happening in your business when you first reached out to us?
Why ask this?

Mom Test principle: Ask about specific past context rather than opinions. Sets up the struggling moment that initiated contact.

Technique

Use the JTBD struggling moment technique - probe for the trigger event that made them seek a solution.

Follow-up Prompts
  • What specific incident or situation made you think you needed outside help?
  • How long had this been a problem before you decided to act?
Watch out for
  • Generic answers like 'we needed better sales' - push for the specific moment or incident
Q2 Tell me about what you were hoping to see in our proposal.
Why ask this?

JTBD: Understand the job they hired the proposal to do - what success criteria they had in mind.

Technique

Listen for both functional and emotional jobs - what would success look like and how would it make them feel.

Follow-up Prompts
  • If the proposal had been perfect, what would have happened next in your organization?
  • Who else would have been excited about this working?
Watch out for
  • Vague answers like 'good value' - probe for specific success metrics and emotional outcomes
Q3 Walk me through the last vendor selection process you went through successfully. What made that one work?
Why ask this?

Mom Test: Ask about past behavior in similar situations to understand their actual decision patterns, not stated preferences.

Technique

Use comparative analysis technique - contrast successful vs unsuccessful vendor experiences to identify critical success factors.

Follow-up Prompts
  • What was different about how that vendor approached you?
  • What did they understand about your situation that others missed?
Watch out for
  • Hypothetical responses about what they 'usually' do - anchor in one specific successful purchase
Q4 Can you walk me through what happened when you first opened our proposal?
Why ask this?

Ethnographic interviewing: Capture the moment-by-moment experience to understand emotional journey and cognitive processing.

Technique

Use the 'movie technique' - ask them to narrate like describing a movie scene, including thoughts and feelings.

Follow-up Prompts
  • What was your first reaction in that moment?
  • What did you do immediately after reading it?
  • Who was the first person you talked to about it?
Watch out for
  • Jumping to conclusions or summary judgments - slow them down to get the chronological experience
Q5 Tell me about the conversations you had with your team after reviewing the proposal.
Why ask this?

Mom Test: Focus on actual behavior - what conversations really happened, not what they think in retrospect.

Technique

Use the 'fly on the wall' technique - ask them to recreate actual dialogue and reactions from specific meetings.

Follow-up Prompts
  • What exactly did our product say when you showed them?
  • What concerns came up that surprised you?
  • Who was most skeptical and why?
Watch out for
  • Generic team responses - probe for specific people, specific reactions, actual words used
Q6 Describe the moment you decided not to move forward. What was happening around you?
Why ask this?

Critical Incident Technique: Identify the specific moment and context when the decision crystallized.

Technique

Probe for environmental context, emotional state, and trigger event using the 'freeze frame' method - what exactly was happening in that decisive moment.

Follow-up Prompts
  • What were you feeling in that moment?
  • Was there a specific thing that tipped the scales?
  • How did you know it was time to stop pursuing this?
Watch out for
  • Rationalized explanations - look for the raw, unfiltered moment before they constructed a polite reason

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